So I test drove a new Odyssey Elite and EX-L to see what I'm missing, and I actually am not missing much. I will be comparing my vehicle with the EX-L , even though it may be an unfair comparison considering they're different trims. However, I am doing it because that is where the price range for my vehicle (Touring L+ with Advanced Safety and handsfree door/lift gate) fell into versus the EX-L (the EX-L actually cost more currently with no discount).
LED head lights: This is a bummer that Pacifica didn't offer, but it's not a feature I would choose a car over. This is not offered on the EX-L which is where my budget is so I'd be missing this as well had I purchased an Odyssey.
Cabinwatch and Cabintalk: More like down blouse camera. The only purpose for this camera is to check on the baby, and a baby mirror works just as well. Also, why do you need a PA systems to yell at your kids when they're... like RIGHT there behind you? If they're using the headphones, you can just mute the thing and talk to them. This is a gimmick. This is not offered on the EX-L version.
Android Auto/Apple Carplay is what I miss most on the Pacifica. I don't use this much because having to plug in the phone every time is not good for the battery. Batteries last so many cycles before it deteriorates, and each plugged in charge counts as one cycle. Wireless Carplay/Android Auto is the tech I'm waiting for and that may be a few years off. Based on how long it took automakers to adopt Carplay/Android Auto, this may be standard in five years.
-Parking Sensors: Strangely enough, has no sensor directly in front, just front sides. Pacifica wins here.
-Hands Free Tailgate: Not something on my wishlist but was an option in the vehicle I own. Not offered on EX-L, option on Touring, and standard on Elite.
-Magic Seat: Very cool option, but you have to remove the middle seat in order to use it. I paid for the 8th seat option on mine, so this would be a disappointment. However, I would have to give the win here for Odyssey.
-Hands Free side door: I actually used it yesterday with a baby on one arm and his baby bag on the other. Very cool which I will be using all the time now considering I'm picking him up every day. This was an option on my vehicle which I was not happy I had to pay for but now am very glad I did. This is not offered by Honda! The side door is the useful one for me, not the lift gate if you have a baby. Pacifica wins here.
-3rd Row Sunshades: Not offered on the EX-L! Really useful option for a van.
-HondaVac: Yeah, I didn't buy the Elite for this and while useful, is not worth it for me either way. Even.
-Auto Start-Stop Engine: I bought the version without ESS so this is not a big deal to me. I' am OK with ESS if it doesn't cost more money, but the savings in gas is negligible because this vehicle is normally used for long distance travel not around town. Even. Negative for those who don't want it as Pacifica has a version without ESS.
-Rain sensing wiper. EX-L doesn't have it. Mine does. Pacifica wins versus EX-L . Option is available at lower trim than Elite on Pacifica.
-Folding Mirrors. Both are not automatic. I don't care for this but same option available on both vehicles.
-Auto lock walkaway. Very cool. I wish Pac has it.
- Rear Entertainment has only 1 HDMI and 1 screen. I'm unsure if it can play music and digital videos from thumb drive. However, it does have streaming videos but you have to pay for monthly data plan. This is either a pro or con depending on your preference, but I'd rather get free videos from my thumbdrive.
Odyssey cons:
-No stop and Go ACC.
-No parallel park assist. Parallel parking is not something I do all the time, but it's great for the wife and the occasional time I need to use it.
-No 2nd row folding car seat. As great as magic seat on Ody, the folding is very useful, especially for camping trips and for when we need to use it for hauling cargo. There isn't always an option to take seats out and store it if you aren't planning it ahead of time!
- Rear entertainment system: Two screens versus one. Option on EX-L.
- No heated steering wheel on the EX-L, but this is not something I would use in California.
- 11 speakers on Elite vs 13 speakers on Touring L+ and up. Don't care much on this one.
- 8 Passenger option kills Magic slide seat.
- No surround view camera! One of my favorite feature and the Ody lacks it even with Elite!
- Less storage space. The two 2nd row folding seats of the Pacifica has a lot of storage space. This is something the Ody lacks. When you're going on a trip with a full van, storage space is a premium.
- No AC plug and less USB on the EX-L. The Elite has less in total than Pacifica with Navi. I believe Elite has 3 USB (1 front, 2 with entertainment system), 1 AC, and 3 DC for total of 7 versus 6 USB on Touring L+ (2 on RES), with 2 DC, and 1 AC for total of 9. 7 vs 9 but Honda may have an additional DC outlet
So all in all, I'm pretty happy with my purchase, it has the features I want most: hands free side door, folding 2nd row seat, dual rear entertainment system, stop and go ACC, surround view camera, and parallel park assist.
Edit: Added a few pros and cons
Edit 2: Added storage space as a con, plus pro for Rear entertainment video streaming, plus outlet count
LED head lights: This is a bummer that Pacifica didn't offer, but it's not a feature I would choose a car over. This is not offered on the EX-L which is where my budget is so I'd be missing this as well had I purchased an Odyssey.
Cabinwatch and Cabintalk: More like down blouse camera. The only purpose for this camera is to check on the baby, and a baby mirror works just as well. Also, why do you need a PA systems to yell at your kids when they're... like RIGHT there behind you? If they're using the headphones, you can just mute the thing and talk to them. This is a gimmick. This is not offered on the EX-L version.
Android Auto/Apple Carplay is what I miss most on the Pacifica. I don't use this much because having to plug in the phone every time is not good for the battery. Batteries last so many cycles before it deteriorates, and each plugged in charge counts as one cycle. Wireless Carplay/Android Auto is the tech I'm waiting for and that may be a few years off. Based on how long it took automakers to adopt Carplay/Android Auto, this may be standard in five years.
-Parking Sensors: Strangely enough, has no sensor directly in front, just front sides. Pacifica wins here.
-Hands Free Tailgate: Not something on my wishlist but was an option in the vehicle I own. Not offered on EX-L, option on Touring, and standard on Elite.
-Magic Seat: Very cool option, but you have to remove the middle seat in order to use it. I paid for the 8th seat option on mine, so this would be a disappointment. However, I would have to give the win here for Odyssey.
-Hands Free side door: I actually used it yesterday with a baby on one arm and his baby bag on the other. Very cool which I will be using all the time now considering I'm picking him up every day. This was an option on my vehicle which I was not happy I had to pay for but now am very glad I did. This is not offered by Honda! The side door is the useful one for me, not the lift gate if you have a baby. Pacifica wins here.
-3rd Row Sunshades: Not offered on the EX-L! Really useful option for a van.
-HondaVac: Yeah, I didn't buy the Elite for this and while useful, is not worth it for me either way. Even.
-Auto Start-Stop Engine: I bought the version without ESS so this is not a big deal to me. I' am OK with ESS if it doesn't cost more money, but the savings in gas is negligible because this vehicle is normally used for long distance travel not around town. Even. Negative for those who don't want it as Pacifica has a version without ESS.
-Rain sensing wiper. EX-L doesn't have it. Mine does. Pacifica wins versus EX-L . Option is available at lower trim than Elite on Pacifica.
-Folding Mirrors. Both are not automatic. I don't care for this but same option available on both vehicles.
-Auto lock walkaway. Very cool. I wish Pac has it.
- Rear Entertainment has only 1 HDMI and 1 screen. I'm unsure if it can play music and digital videos from thumb drive. However, it does have streaming videos but you have to pay for monthly data plan. This is either a pro or con depending on your preference, but I'd rather get free videos from my thumbdrive.
Odyssey cons:
-No stop and Go ACC.
-No parallel park assist. Parallel parking is not something I do all the time, but it's great for the wife and the occasional time I need to use it.
-No 2nd row folding car seat. As great as magic seat on Ody, the folding is very useful, especially for camping trips and for when we need to use it for hauling cargo. There isn't always an option to take seats out and store it if you aren't planning it ahead of time!
- Rear entertainment system: Two screens versus one. Option on EX-L.
- No heated steering wheel on the EX-L, but this is not something I would use in California.
- 11 speakers on Elite vs 13 speakers on Touring L+ and up. Don't care much on this one.
- 8 Passenger option kills Magic slide seat.
- No surround view camera! One of my favorite feature and the Ody lacks it even with Elite!
- Less storage space. The two 2nd row folding seats of the Pacifica has a lot of storage space. This is something the Ody lacks. When you're going on a trip with a full van, storage space is a premium.
- No AC plug and less USB on the EX-L. The Elite has less in total than Pacifica with Navi. I believe Elite has 3 USB (1 front, 2 with entertainment system), 1 AC, and 3 DC for total of 7 versus 6 USB on Touring L+ (2 on RES), with 2 DC, and 1 AC for total of 9. 7 vs 9 but Honda may have an additional DC outlet
So all in all, I'm pretty happy with my purchase, it has the features I want most: hands free side door, folding 2nd row seat, dual rear entertainment system, stop and go ACC, surround view camera, and parallel park assist.
Edit: Added a few pros and cons
Edit 2: Added storage space as a con, plus pro for Rear entertainment video streaming, plus outlet count