Welcome - please provide some specifics and pictures!
You made the best choice - a Pacifica has more space, functionality, convenience, mileage, comfort, and usability than any SUV! And you correctly listed the reasons a premium SUV costing $20K more makes less and less sense. The Limited is the best way to go as well - get EVERY option! Life's too short to get less.
Congratulations again and welcome!
2019 Pacifica Limited - Luxury White. Alloy/Black
2005, 2008, 2015 Odyssey,
2017 Pacifica Limited - Tusk/Mocha