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After a year and a half or trying different procedures and medication I’m looking at 2 more surgeries. First 2 nerve oblations then a urethral reconstruction. This last year and a half has been **** and a blessing - I have a healthy beautiful happy and what seems to be the easiest baby girl. I call her our miracle baby because we I got hurt just days after our first try and had urethra problems for months before we would’ve been able to try again. I have been probed poked prodded and examined in detail usually in stirrups fully exposed to what always seemed like a bunch of cute nurses :surprise: i’ve Lost allot of things to include my other part time job, strain on the marriage, and sometimes just not being able to really take care of and interact with out now 9 month old because of the pain. I don’t get the interaction with other outside the house because I’m not working. And not working gets rumors flying. Oh and the weight gain, I’ve always kept busy, i can’t just sit around when I know there are things to be done. I went from full time work fulltime student and national guard and house work to - laying on couch or floor or in bed, I mostly lay or stand, sitting aggravates things. Clearing snow to make it to a urology appointment just about killed me. Anyways, I get on here and check the forum like 100 times a day because I’m bored as ****.
 

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After a year and a half or trying different procedures and medication I’m looking at 2 more surgeries. First 2 nerve oblations then a urethral reconstruction. This last year and a half has been **** and a blessing - I have a healthy beautiful happy and what seems to be the easiest baby girl. I call her our miracle baby because we I got hurt just days after our first try and had urethra problems for months before we would’ve been able to try again. I have been probed poked prodded and examined in detail usually in stirrups fully exposed to what always seemed like a bunch of cute nurses :surprise: i’ve Lost allot of things to include my other part time job, strain on the marriage, and sometimes just not being able to really take care of and interact with out now 9 month old because of the pain. I don’t get the interaction with other outside the house because I’m not working. And not working gets rumors flying. Oh and the weight gain, I’ve always kept busy, i can’t just sit around when I know there are things to be done. I went from full time work fulltime student and national guard and house work to - laying on couch or floor or in bed, I mostly lay or stand, sitting aggravates things. Clearing snow to make it to a urology appointment just about killed me. Anyways, I get on here and check the forum like 100 times a day because I’m bored as ****.
Best of luck to you and your family. Thank you for your service. :smile2:
 
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well, that sucks. "urethral reconstruction" sounds decidedly unpleasant.

On a brighter note, this will be the first holiday season with your baby---that's usually an exciting time of firsts!

I also hope you have other forums, facebook groups, or reddit subs to read because generally this place is pretty dead. It's not the best for entertainment.
 

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Thanks guys, yeah holiday with the baby will be fun for sure. She's more fun (and work) everyday. She's a cutie pie - definitely going to get daddy in trouble with the boys. People tell us "you baby is so cute, and I mean it, I'm not just saying your baby is cute because she is your baby - She's really cute" lol I don't really do facebook, i have a twitter but only to stay current with whats going on in the world and a bunch of 2nd amendment feeds. I like checking see what problems people are having, maybe try and trouble shoot it in my head and post any tech data I can. I'm a technician by trade so its what I like to do. Pretty much black balled at work, they think im totally faking my injury and am "one of those guys" basically think im a piece of garbage just working the system. What they dont see is almost 100 doctor visits, procedures, surgeries, and medication. Had 4 urethral dilations now this urethral reconstruction deal - these are the equivalent to male childbirth and unfakeable
 
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