I will offer another possible explanation that does not require warning lights to get triggered. The oil cooler is cooled by coolant. When it cracks the coolant leaks out slowly onto the hot block and evaporates the water. Some folks notice the sweet smell of coolant in the morning when the coolant that leaked out when the engine was cool starts to boil off. Most people do not check their coolant level. When is goes down enough, I believe it could cause air bubbles/pockets to get into the coolant passages. If one of these air pockets form near the head to block interface then the gasket superheats momentarily until the bubble passes. Repeatedly this could damage the HG. I bring this up becuase when I worked at Cummins, we had EGR cooler failures (air to Coolant) where if the coolant pressure wasn holding 15psi, the coolant going through the EGR cooler would flash boil. Imagine water drops on a hot skillet. Air gets in, the hot exhaust super heats the EGR cooler, the coolant side boils and is no longer touching the tubes in the cooler. There is a gap between the coolant and the egr gas tubes. The tubes get super heated, they lose their solder(brazing) then leak coolant into the EGR gas side of the cooler. Its a similar failure mode. Coolant leak= coolant pressure loss=air can enter the system. No lights get triggered or alarms until the other symptoms, misfires, hg failure, large coolant loss occur. We won know unless someone at Chysler volunteers the information if they ever figure it out. Keep in mind that the failure rate is probably so low that it's cheaper to let it keep happening and just pay for it under warranty or goodwill a little to first owners out of warranty. Thatś what we did at Cummins. We spent years trying to figure out why EGR coolers failed all the time. They even had BS warranty repair procedures like using an off the shelf radiator stop leak product that used cellulose fibers (paper) in it to plg egr cooler leaks long enough to get them out of warranty or until a better solution could be found.